Over the past few months, I have thought a lot about John Davoren, a man who played a very important part in my life. It was 1974, and I had left my family the year before. I had fallen into bad ways, and this had led me to be in trouble with the police. One day I decided that I had to separate myself from the circumstances that I was in, and after spending the night sleeping on Victoria station in London I decided to walk around the pubs in the area to see if I could get a job and a place to live. The first pub I went into didn’t have any vacancies, so I tried the next one. The landlord there was Don O’Toole, and he told me that he didn’t have any jobs, but he knew his friend in the pub around the corner was looking for staff, and he advised me to go and see him. That friend was John Davoren, and I went to see him. He gave me a job, and a home, on the spot. For that I am very grateful.
Not only that, but when my misdeeds caught up with me a few months later and I was whisked off to Borstal, John and his wife Pauline kept the job open for me and also came to see me while I was inside. I worked for them until 1977 and we parted company.
I recently contacted Pauline through a well-known social networking site and we spent a couple of hours chatting on Skype at the weekend. John unfortunately passed away in 2008, but I am thrilled to have had the opportunity to thank Pauline for what she and John did for me over 35 years ago. I will be dedicating my next book to John Davoren – a very special Irishman, who had a much more difficult start in life than I did, but always tried to do right by people.
Thank you John and Pauline!
Graham it’s both great and satisfying to honour the friendship and support received from others. And as one ages these positive contributors to the “life journey” become even more important. Cheers to John and Pauline from me too!
Many thanks Gordon – I hope Pauline and Caroline (John and Pauline’s daughter) also read this. Very excited to be picking up first copies of the book tomorrow!
Graham, I am also thankful to John & Pauline because I am sure if it were not for them and their kindness I would not have come to know you myself and it has been a great pleasure getting to know and I can’t wait to see a copy of your book! Amanda
Amanda, Thank you – that’s very kind. I will have copies with me at 4Networking in Peterborough and Cambridge next Tuesday and Wednesday – otherwise I could drop one round for you on Wednesday late morning. Thanks again for the kind comments!
I would like to read your biography some time & to know you better. There’s as always far more to you than I could have known.
Well I do have quite a story to tell, Steve! I won’t see you in July as I have prior engagements but look forward to catching up in August. Thanks for the comment and your interest!